Archive for March, 2021

Palm Sunday worship 28th March led by Mr Darryl Lomas.

Friday, March 26th, 2021

Wednesday worship 24th March led by Mr Darryl Lomas.

Friday, March 26th, 2021

Bible study 23rd March led by Rev Suzanne Nockels

Friday, March 26th, 2021

I thirst” (John 19:28)

Read Psalm 63:1-5

It has made me smile that one of the things that people miss most about the worship isn’t the lack of singing but the fact that we cannot have a cup of tea afterwards. At first, I got a bit irritated because I thought it showed that Church was just a social club but now, I realise that we thirst for human company as much as a good brew. We need things from each other.

At the beginning of his ministry Jesus asks the Samaritan woman at the well for a drink and upon the cross he also thirsts. The Son of God has human needs and asks us to meet those needs. He also thirsts for our love. We tend to think first of our need of Jesus, but Jesus loves, desires and thirsts for us far more than we do for him.

  1. Are you happier being a receiver or a giver (being thirsty or relieving thirst)? Why? What about with Jesus? If this refers to the last para, the thought God is always there for me is very satisfying. Like everyone though it would be great to have definite knowledge our prayers may be answered. I would not think I can give God anything other than service as a disciple.

If on a personal level I’m happy in my own company neither really but contacting people thro covid has been rewarding. Giving them someone different to talk to.

What do we talk about? Conversation can lead to discovery of new things or more about a person

Receiver can say no. Is it a weakness?

Create space fr the listening ear.

Domination can stop growth

Does giving mean otherwise it doesnt get done. Is this an ego thing?

Hymns rarely speak of what we give God

Can we learn to be more thirsty?

  1. What do you think Jesus might thirst for from us?

Loyalty and the great commission. Is it a sign of weakness

Just a presence – is it a two way relationship

We have thirsts too. We might thirst for a bit more money, companionship or acclaim. We should not be embarrassed by our ‘thirsts’ but bring them to Jesus. Meet him by our spiritual wells in prayer. Only them might we find that our deeper thirsts are really about security, purpose and affirmation. Things that can only be satisfied in Jesus. We might even learn to be thirsty for more of God and more of the kingdom. Desire isn’t wrong it often just gets misplaced.

  1. What are you thirsty for more of with God? In line with what Natasha said earlier More two way conversations in prayer. More of a human relationship

Are we seeing the signs – how do we become more aware

It is finished’ (John 19:30)

When he had received the drink, Jesus said, It is finished.”With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit”.

A better translation for ‘finished’ is completed or perfected.

  1. What was the last task that you completed? Sorting out my pension and car insurance, & booking the safeguarding training How did you feel? Relief Another job off the list

Often left hanging jobs like sharig gospel or Area work or church work. Worse when one job leads to another.

  1. Is there something you think you perfected? No, jack of all trades master of none.

I think we often dream of completion and perfection, but it rarely happens. We might dream of the perfect Church or the perfect marriage but both are made up of human beings who make mistakes, snore or have other irritating habits. Do we give up? Do we become cynical? Here upon the cross is complete, perfect love.

We may not like some things the person we love does but is that what love is

Wait a minute. The cross is not beautiful or sheer happiness so how on earth is it perfection? Strangely, it is because Jesus does not expect completeness or perfection from us just our true selves. Perfect love does not demand perfection of the other.

Father into your hands I commend my spirit’ (Luke 23:46)

Read Luke 23:44-45

44 It was now about noon, and darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon,45 for the sun stopped shining. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two.46 Jesus called out with a loud voice, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.” When he had said this, he breathed his last.

  1. Have you ever had to trust your life to someone else? Yes I suppose when I broke my pelvis and had major operation

The last word is addressed to God. It is a supreme act of trust. We are anxious about our health, jobs and future despite living at a time in the West when we have better medicines and social security provision (although it’s still not as good as it could be). We are mistrustful of people in authority and those in positions of care with the result that we try to carry everything in our own hands. We try to control things and of course we can’t….especially not death.

I had a friend who liked to say “Don’t worry. It probably will not happen”. I once challenged him by saying “Mike, I prefer ‘Don’t worry. It probably will happen but it will not be the end of the world’. In some ways the worst for the Christian has already happened; the sun darkened, the holy of holies was ripped open, the tombs erupted- horror movie, apocalyptic stuff that the prophets spoke about. The Son of God died………and then there was Easter Sunday.

In the end, the last word is that we cannot carry and control it all. We have to trust ourselves to God. Can we start now rather than just at the end of our lives? Maybe our trust now is a rehearsal for what will come?

  1. Is there something we need to place into God’s hands? Church issues

Prayer before or after placing in God’s hands

Does a church dying lead to new worship group? Do they move into other congregation?

Are we merely custodian? Have we let our predecessors down. Massive secularisation with a bigger gap between secular and religious life?

Gospel not changed. Language may have. Are we still relevant by not speaking the language?

Should 80 year olds have to struggle with this. Has Covid knocked us off this trajectory.

If we hadnt opened would we have carriwed on as before coivid. Need to think about it

do the communties now want more, have they moved to a religious stance.

Does faith come before church?


Lord Jesus,

Thank you that your final words still speak to us from the cross.

In thirsting you show us that there is no shame in desire.

Help us desire you Jesus in the way you desire us.

In completing your mission you show us that perfect love accepts imperfection.

Help us love unselfishly and generously and not demand perfection first.

In placing your Spirit into your Father’s hands, you show how to trust.


Wednesday worship 17th March 2021 led by Mr Darryl Lomas

Wednesday, March 17th, 2021

Reading 2 Chronicles: 11-23

Darryl started by telling us about a number of new words that arose during WW II then asked what new words we had learned since the start of the Covid pandemic.

Darryl chose to focus on the term ‘Social distancing’.

In Luke 4:1-15 we read of Jesus in the wilderness facing the temptation of Satan. Certainly socially distanced but he took the opportunity to focus on the important things in life. What the priorities were in his life which was to be time limited.

Our social distancing requirements are not as drastic as those faced by Jesus, few of us have gone 40 days without food.

Covid has given us the time ti think and reflect, even brood on what life holds as we move forward. Who or what is important in our lives? How will we move forward in serving God?

Wednesday worship led by Rev Suzanne Nockels 10th March repeated on Mothering Sunday 14th March 2020

Sunday, March 14th, 2021

Bible Study 9th March 2021

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2021



  1. Have you ever ‘set anyone up’? Have you been set up or introduced by someone?

Read John 19:26-27

Good Friday shows a loss of community. The disciples have mostly turned and ran and those that cheered for Jesus are now jeering him. Yet, when humanity is at its most hateful and divided (those being killed and those doing the killing) a new community is being born at the foot of the cross. Before Pentecost you could argue that the Church is actually born here. Jesus absorbs our hostility and cruelty to one another in his loving self-sacrifice so that we all become his family by blood, his blood. Jesus knows what is like to be the ultimate outcast at Golgotha, so no-one is excluded from his family.

We don’t use familial terms for one another very often, although they do turn up in the funeral service, but I quite like them. To call each other family can be a healing, restorative thing.

Read Genesis 45:4

There’s a lovely story about Archbishop Helder Camara of Recife in Brazil who had a real heart for the poor. When he heard that someone had been unjustly arrested, he would turn up at the police station and say, “you have arrested my brother.” The officers would be very apologetic and release the man. When they questioned why the surname was different the Archbishop would explain that everyone was his brother and sister.

  1. What do think John and Mary brought to the relationship and thus the early Church?

3-Does the idea of family really stretch? Are we always going to treat our nearest relatives differently from other people?

4-How can we build a sense of family in our Church? How can we build a sense of family in the community?


4-When have you felt that God wasn’t there?

Read Mark 15:34 and Psalm 22

5- What similarities do you see between Psalm 22 and the events of Good Friday?

This is more than doubting the existence of God as an intellectual exercise, this is yearning for God but not finding Him. It is the suffering that appears pointless and meaningless. It’s when we cry out “Why? Where is God now?”. Some theologies of the cross have the idea that Jesus has taken on so much sin that God cannot look upon it and therefore His own Son. I prefer to think that Jesus is fully human as well as divine and that means he experiences our sense of being God-forsaken. Love takes him into the hardest place of all. People can bear many things if they think there is a purpose or meaning but to feel forsaken is truly terrible. Brian Kennan who was a hostage in Lebanon felt there was a void. He had been forgotten about by the world and God; ‘I am full with nothing. My prayers rebound on me as if all those words I sent up were poured back upon me like an avalanche tumbling around me.’ To those of us content in our faith these words and Jesus’ words are challenging, however, to the person who feels like this they are hope- somebody knows what this is like and somebody else’s faith survived it.

6- What would you say/do to someone who felt God-forsaken?


Lord sometimes wonderful things form in the hardest of places.

New relationships that have come out of adversity and are the stronger for it.

We thank you for family, friends and our brothers and sisters in Christ.

Lord sometimes we need to be honest and say there is nothing wonderful.

We feel bereft even of You.

We try to survive the absence- there’s little else we can so.

Help us as Christian community keep the faith even when a brother or sister cannot hold it for themselves.

Help us hear their hard words without flinching and sit with them in the pain.

It helps that You know Jesus, You know.


Wednesday Worship led by Rev Suzanne Nockels 3rd March 2021

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2021

Wednesday worship led by Mr Darryl Lomas 24th February 2021

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2021